Thursday, March 26, 2015

What Are You Waiting For?


“I have this theory that if one person can go out of their way to show compassion, then it will start a chain reaction of the same. People will never know how far a little kindness can go.” Rachel Scott, the first victim of Columbine tragedy.
 
About eight months ago I decided to really step outside my comfort zone.  I began religiously writing blog posts.   For those of you that really know me, you will understand that I’m actually quite insecure.  On the outside I’m a happy-go-lucky type of guy and I express myself in an energetic way.  Most people would call me confident, and others possibly arrogant.  These are actually far from it.  I play a good game, but on the inside I’m quite different.
 
I’m insecure.  So when I decided to start writing and sharing my blog posts to the world you could imagine that it was a giant leap of faith for me.  But I cannot help but think I was put on this earth to do more than what I’m currently doing.  I lie awake at night thinking about how I can make a difference in this world.  I get to work in the greatest profession one could imagine.  I get to inspire people each and every day.  I’m sure some days I do better than others, but the opportunity presents itself with each new sunrise.  My conscious however, continues to tell me that I need to do more. 
 
So I’ve turned to writing.  Over the last eight months I have written over 20 blog posts.  Most of these posts have been attached with a theme of motivation or inspiration.  Some were written to challenge people to think better and to do better.  Others were written as tributes to those that have had a positive impact in my life.  Whatever the post may be, I always try to incorporate a positive message each and every time.
 
Over the last couple weeks I’ve purposely put something out there in order to see what happens.  I posted something or wrote something just to see what kind of a response it would get.  For example,  I posted the picture below challenging people to have a conversation with somebody new each day.  Unfortunately, I think the conversation stopped shortly after I posted it.  Everyone of us has a story that needs to be heard.
 

I also sent out an “I Appreciate You” tweet and challenged people to retweet and show someone that you appreciate them.  Each time I write an inspirational blog I invite people to share it.  I don't make money from my blog.  I'm not out to brand my name.  I write simply because it feels good and I continue to be encouraged to do so.  But dang it, it feels really good to be appreciated, and you have the power to make this happen for someone else.

 

 
 
Two weeks ago I invited three students into my office and shared an idea with them.  I wanted to start a chain reaction of appreciation.  I wanted it to be student led, and let their creative minds run with it.  They came up with an idea to put  “You Are Appreciated” signs on cars and asked the person that received it to pass it on to someone else.   The students did a phenomenal job and put quite a bit of effort into this campaign.  I’m grateful that they stepped up to do something right.  I'd like to personally thank and recognize these three students from Griggs County Central.  Jachob Rosin, Nicole Samson, and Alicia McCardle - thank you for all of your hard work.
 


You Are Appreciated Sign Created by Alicia McCardle

 

I can’t help but be disappointed with all of this though.  I understand the concept that if you changed one life it was worth it, but I think we can do better.  Please listen to me for a second though.  IT TAKES LITTLE EFFORT TO MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE.  Click the share button, the retweet button, or just simply smile at someone and say hello.  Send an appreciation note.  If nothing else, do one nice thing each day for someone else.  It’s actually quite simple. 
 
I’m not saying society is horrible.  I’m not saying the world is getting scarier.  I have a voice inside my head that continues to tell me to be a change agent in this world.  Make life better for someone else.  I’m in an excellent position to do so and so are you.  I completely get that we get caught up in our own lives.  I understand that.  What most of us don’t understand is that we take for granted all the blessings we have in our lives.  We don’t think about how the world would be different if we didn’t have them.  We wake up in the morning and often times repeat the same routines throughout each day.
 
Add something to your routine today and every day that follows….a random act of kindness.  This is all I ask.  This is what Rachel Scott was saying when she wrote the quote from above in her journal.  Rachel has started a chain reaction that has inspired and saved lives.  For more info about a wonderful program that has been created in her name please visit http://www.rachelschallenge.org/  What will your impact be?  What will you do to make a difference? 
  
I challenge you to share one or more of the images you see on this blog or share the entire post. Challenge others to do the same.  Take a second out of your life, to make a world of difference in someone else’s.  I will stop writing blog posts when the little person inside my head settles down.  We have bonded like none other for the last eight months, however I wish he’d agree to bond during daylight hours.
 
I have stepped outside my comfort zone. Are you willing to do the same?  I dare you..double dog dare you....triple dare you with no sticky tag backs.  What are you waiting for?

 

Saturday, March 7, 2015

The Not Perfect Blog Post

What does it mean to be perfect?  Have you ever thought about this?  Have you ever looked at someone and thought that they were perfect or had a perfect life?  Do you ever wish that you were perfect?

Perfection is a false perception.  Nobody is perfect.  Nobody will ever reach perfection.  Perfection would be quite boring if you actually think about it. So why is it that our society pushes us to be somebody or something that we are not?

I’m not sure I can answer that, but I would like to introduce you to an organization that is designed to show you that being NOT perfect is perfectly acceptable.  The organization is the Not So Perfect Hat Club.  You can find more information about this wonderful program by visiting www.notperfecthatclub.com. The Not So Perfect Hat Club sends a message to people that you are just fine the way you are.  You have talents and abilities that can take you anywhere you want to go in life.  You don’t have to try to be somebody or something else.  All you need to do is to be you, and be the best “you” you can be.  You are perfectly fine the way you are and nobody can take that away from you.

So how can you be the best “you?”  Vince Lombardi probably said it better than anyone when he said, “perfection is not attainable, but if we chose perfection we can catch excellence.”  Rather than focusing on an end result, focus on what you can do today.  Constant progression will put you on a path to excellence.  Will you have setbacks?  Will you have bad days?  Absolutely you will, but those moments do not define who you are.  How you handle the setbacks and rough days will determine how far you can go.

If you have a beating heart, please live by the following guidelines.

1.     You are special.  There is not one other person like you, and that is an awesome thought.
2.     You are not perfect.  Nobody is perfect and that is perfectly fine.
3.     You matter.  You absolutely matter to many people.  People you don’t even know care about you and are better just because you exist.
4.     Help others.  We can help people by lifting them up and praising them.  Even though you ultimately control your own destiny – you can influence and be influenced.  You may just find that by helping others you are actually helping yourself.
5.     Practice optimistic thinking.  If we strive to think better and do better, the world in which we live will ultimately be better.  You will find that your optimistic thinking will become habitual and it will yield a much happier life for yourself.

I’m not a scientist, sociologist, psychologist, or anything that ends in ist or gist.  I’m an educator and educatorist is not a word.  I’m a human being that believes the world is great and the people that make it up are even greater.   The words that come out of my mouth carry no more weight than the words that come out of yours or others.  I’m not famous.  I’m not a billionaire.  I've never been on Dr. Phil, Ellen, or the Price is Right.  I’m an ordinary person just letting you know that ordinary is ok, and that you control your transformation from ordinary to extraordinary.

Next time somebody tells you that you are not perfect, say thank you.  Perfect would be boring.   If you don’t believe me or want to listen to me then ponder on the following quote from Albert Einstein.

“A perfection of means, and confusion of aims, seems to be our main problem.”

So now that I’m not perfectly fine with this not so perfect blog, I’m going to stop writing and continue to not be perfect.  I will however strive for it, work for it, and dream for it, and hopefully settle on excellence.



Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Collabortion & the 2015 AASA National Conference

If it wasn’t for collaboration we would be confined to our own ideas and intuitions. 
The benefits of such collaboration were bestowed upon me this past week as I attended the AASA’s National Conference of Education in San Diego.
Before I go into detail and insights of the conference content, let me first give a shout out to the city of San Diego.  You have one of the cleanest, most beautiful cities I’ve ever stepped foot in.  The people are friendly, the skies are blue, the scenery is remarkable, and amenities plentiful.  I’m not just saying this because the temperature (when factoring in the wild chill) was 100 degrees warmer on Thursday then it was in Cooperstown.  I did however sigh when I departed your great city on Sunday morning. I told myself however, that is was not a goodbye, but I’ll see you again. 
When I left that Sunday morning, I left with so much more than I came with.  Nothing that I had to pack into a suitcase, but most of which was packed into my brain.    I must say that our nation’s schools are in great hands.  The passion that is exemplified by superintendents at this conference is unlike any other.  As a young administrator, I often act like a sponge and soak up as much information as I possibly can when I’m around other school leaders.  The collaboration and networking with others is undoubtedly the most beneficial aspect of conferences.

A picture of beautiful San Diego from the 16th Floor the
San Diego Marriott Marquis & Marina Hotel 

This couldn’t be truer for this conference.  Being able to meet people face to face whom I had been twittering with was an enjoyable experience.  These administrators are doing great things in their districts.  I’m happy to call them colleagues, I’m happy to call some of them friends, and I’m extremely happy to have them in my Professional Learning Network.  I often times quote Woodrow Wilson when he stated that “I not only use all the brains that I have, but all that I can borrow.”  Thank you for letting me borrow your brains.  Thank you @AASAHQ for a great conference.
Speaking of brains, I need to send a shout out to some of the North Dakota administrators that were with me in San Diego.  Superintendents Chris Swenson - Wyndmere (@WyndmereSchool), Rob Lech - Jamestown (@robertlech), Todd Kaylor - Beulah (@t_Kaylor), Jeff Fastnacht - Ellendale (@ndcardinal), Jeremy Brandt – Central Valley.  If you do not currently have these individuals in your PLN, you are missing out.  Thank you gentlemen for providing me with a wealth of knowledge to take back with me to Cooperstown. 
North Dakota had a great showing at the conference.  The above named individuals were just a fraction of those representing our great state.  All of them have reinforced the importance of education to me.  North Dakota is in great hands.  I could not be happier with the work we are doing to ensure student success.  I may be completely biased (actually I’m pretty sure I am), but North Dakota knows how to do education.  We value the “whole” child and emphasize that a test score is just a fraction of the intelligent quotient for our students. 
As I’m writing about valuing the “whole” child, I would like to leave you with two of the most important things I took away from this conference.  Note – I do not have the actual sources that quoted the following takeaways.  These came about through presentations.
1.       4 out of 5 millennials believe that they cannot trust people.

2.      30% of students do not feel they belong.
If the previous prove to be true then we as a society have our work cut out for us.  Notice that I said we, and not just the school.  We all have an obligation to improve the lives of our youth.  Every child matters.  Every child has the ability to be something great.  Every child belongs.  It is our duty to ensure that every child has a chance to be great.  Let’s not miss out on opportunities to lift our students up and give them wings to fly.

Mr. Jordan