Educator's Guide to A Successful New Year

We all do it don’t we?  This is the time of year that we reflect on the past year and we look forward with great anticipation for the year ahead.  We get to start over.  We become change agents for our own lives.  There is definitely something special about this time of year that gives us a renewed sense of hope and inspiration.

This is especially true in the education world.  The holiday break gives educators the chance to reflect, recharge, refocus, and renew.  As we head into a new year, I’d like to offer a few tips that can maximize the learning environments of our schools.  Some of these are tested, tried, and true; while others may simply be my imagination running wild with optimism for better schools and a better world.

Let time be irrelevant

We need to stop putting a time limit on learning.  What if Thomas Edison was given a deadline for the light bulb?  If we truly want to individualize the learning process for our children, “time” cannot be a major variable.   Focus instead on mastering skills.  When one skill is mastered move on to the next.  Allow the students to own the learning process.  Imagine for a second a school with no bells.  Subjects such as science, math, language arts, and electives are all integrated.  Students use the skills in each of those areas to solve real-world and relevant problems.  The focus and assessments shift to the process and not so much fixated on an end result.  Sounds a lot like growth mindset doesn’t it?

Focus on the C’s

You have heard of the four C’s.  Creativity, collaboration, critical thinking, and communication are the four competencies that many educators believe are the gateway to producing a College and Career Ready student.  I couldn’t agree more with this.  The world in which we live now is such that new jobs are being invented every single day.  Our students in elementary will likely take jobs that have not been invented yet.  Even though these jobs might be a blur to us now, I can certainly guarantee that the competencies listed above will be a requirement for success.  Our schools need to allow children to excel in these areas. 

I would also challenge schools to expand on the four C’s.   With an ever changing world, we need to really hit on things such as character, confidence, compassion, and caring.  We need to show students that they can make a difference in the world.  We need to let them know that failure is okay, and give them the confidence to take risks and step outside their comfort zones.  We need to engage in conversation with our students and let them know that we genuinely care for each of them.  This is called relationship building and it’s the number one thing that an educator can do to ensure learning is taking place.

Want a safe and secure school?

If you want to keep your school safe, it does not start with arming educators or installing metal detectors at all doors.  It starts by showing a genuine care and understanding for every single person in the building.  Connect with each child.  Let them know that you care about them and their well-being.  As a matter of fact, this should be expanded beyond the walls of the school.  What if we all were just a little bit nicer to others?  What if we all extended a genuine care to every individual that crossed our path in a day?  We can make society better simply by acting better.

Will this end all violence?  Absolutely not, but it should make a difference.  The next step to this is to raise awareness for mental illnesses.  We need to treat mental illness with the same magnitude that we do for other diseases such as cancer and dementia (to name a couple).

Desire it

My final tip for a successful new year revolves around the word desire. We don’t talk about this word too often, but it’s simply the fuel that keeps us going, or the lack thereof that keeps us in one place.  We must desire to get better in every facet of life.  We must continue to learn each and every day.  We need to fail a few times, and desire to get back at it and do better.  As educators we must desire to be better at our jobs.  We must have desire for every one of our students to succeed.  Administrators must have the desire to see each of his/her teachers flourish.  We have to find that spark of desire and ignite it.  If you do this 2016 can burn with hope and inspiration and a desire to change the world will exist within you.

Pretty simple right?  There is nothing really fancy to it all.   It’s a mindset change.  Pull the oxygen mask over your face first.  Take a couple of deep breaths and then improve the lives around you.   

I want to wish every one near and far a Happy New Year.  May 2016 bring each of you joy and happiness, and may that joy and happiness be contagious to all of those you come in contact with.

The Real Me.

“What we see depends mainly on what we look for.” John Lubbock

We often confine ourselves to see only what our eyes reflect.  Case and point, this afternoon as my two-year old daughter and I were carting our way through the grocery store,  my precious little girl pointed at a man and said “I don’t like that guy daddy; he’s scary.”   I was quite taken back by this and decided we had reached a teachable moment in her life.  We had a very quick conversation on how we don’t judge people by how they look.

    

I get it and I certainly realize that she is just two years old, but I don’t care how old you are; we have all done it.  We have all thought it to ourselves.  We have all judged a book by its cover.  What causes us to see only what the eye reflects?  Why can’t we train ourselves to see with our hearts?

What do you see when you look at me?  Actually, don’t answer that right now : ).   Allow me once to give you a look see at who I really am, and maybe not what your eyes reflect.  First of all, most of you probably see me as a professional, a superintendent.  Possibly a motivator, and inspirationalist, somebody that appears to have life in order.  Maybe you see me as a loving father and amazing husband.  This is what your eyes might reflect.

The reflection you see is just an ounce of me.   Just like everyone else, I struggle with many things.  I’m not a perfect dad or a perfect husband.  Often times, I consume myself with so much of my work that my family has to take a back seat.   Because I’m able to hold my patience in at school, I often let it out at home.  When it comes to parenting and being a loving husband I have lots of work to do.  On the positive side of this though sometimes in order to get where we want to get, we need to first realize where we are at.

   

But the type of husband and the kind of parent I am is just an ounce of me.  As a child going through school I was bullied.  I was emotionally and physically abused.  My looks were far from perfect.  In fact I was as skinny as a toothpick and people had fun at my expense.   The thing that I was able to fall back on and find comfort in was basketball.  Actually, basketball got me through my school years.

Also as a student and throughout life for that matter I have struggled with anxiety.  I worry constantly.  I worry about money, weight, family, etc.  I worry about it all.  It has to be hereditary and I’m sorry mom, but I have to blame you : ).

 

My student life and anxiety are just fractions of who I am.  I could continue to give you a glimpse into my life, but now your eyes are not just reflecting a physical presence.  Hopefully you are starting to see with your heart.  What if we trained ourselves to see with our hearts and not just our eyes?  You can be a blog writer and write inspirational posts but struggle on a personal level to practice what you preach.  You could be a super-model, but worry about your looks.  You could be a millionaire, but worry about money.  You could be smart, but worry about your grades.  We could go on and on here.

As we head into the Christmas Holiday, I challenge each of you to open your hearts and not just your eyes.  Every single one of us is fighting some battle.  I don’t care how much money someone has or doesn’t have.  I don’t care what a person looks like, how many kids they have, and the kind of car they drive.  I don’t care what job a person has.  We all are fighting battles inside us.  If we open our hearts and not just our eyes we might be able to help somebody through them.

A specific challenge to educators.  See not with just your eyes, but also your hearts.  Every child is worth your heart's reflection.  What we see with our eyes can blind us from reality, but what we see with our hearts reflects the truth.  A straight “A” student with fancy clothes and a nice ride, might just be the student that needs you the most.  Open your heart this holiday season.

As for you.  It is okay to be you.  It is okay to struggle.  You are not alone.  The people you perceive as perfect are actually quite imperfect.  Concentrate on being the best you.  Even though you are struggling, you can bounce back from it.  You have the ability to change the world.  You have the ability to transform yourself from ordinary to extraordinary.  Here is a poem for you.  I’m not a poet.  But as long as I’ve given you a glimpse at the real me, I might as well just throw myself out there a bit more.

The Best Me

They want me to be what they see

But that isn’t the way I ought to be.

They call me names and pick on me

But that isn’t the way it ought to be.

I never get picked by he or she

But that isn’t the way it ought to be.

I’ll never be perfect you see

And that is perfectly fine with me.

I’ll just be the best me

And that’s the way I ought to be.

The Solution

To finish last week’s wonderful world of work, I engaged in our state conference on education for administrators.  It’s always a fabulous few days of enlightenment and connectivity.  It’s the conference that I most look forward to.  Not only does our state organization (North Dakota Council of Educational Leaders) put on a great conference, but the conference gives us a chance to collaborate and communicate commonalities and differences that exist in our schools.  We talk about all sorts of positives and problems that exist in our local schools.  We try to be proactive and solution based as we think about the critical components of educating all children.

We truly do have the best interest of every student at the forefront of our minds.  It’s amazing to see over 400 people sitting in a room, knowing that each of us has the desire to not only improve student learning, but to make a profound difference in the youth of our nation. North Dakota you are truly blessed to have the individuals that you do representing your children.

Throughout the course of the conference we will talk about topics that include curriculum development, school safety and security, classroom management, blended learning, data analysis, formative and summative assessment, school improvement and much more.  Not to discredit the solutions and action plans that come from these topics, but I often walk away thinking we missed a critical component.  Whether it is enhancing school safety or increasing student achievement I feel one characteristic that certainly covers all others tends to be on everyone’s mind, but often taken for granted as a viable solution.

You see, I honestly believe that the best security and safety measure that a school can take is building relationships of trust and care with students.  We can put in metal detectors, arm school personnel with guns, and put buzzer systems on our doors, but I feel that these are all reactionary solutions.  What if we started from an entirely different angle?  What if we start by building positive relationships with our students…every student?  If we can show them that we care, if we can show them that they matter, if we can show them that their dreams can become reality and their nightmares a falsity then we will instill hope in them.  Hope gives us all a purpose.  Hope inspires.  What if we inspire our students on the forefront?  What if instead of being reactionary we put all of our efforts into being proactive?  How would this change things?

No doubt, we cannot minimize the importance of school safety.  If children feel safe and secure then they will be more apt to learn.  But I can’t help think a little inspiration could be a fix to the list of all the topics above.  If we recognize the uniqueness of each individual and celebrate that each and every day, I can guarantee that our students will do better in school.  We will see test scores rise.  You will see less violence in school.  Our data would indicate schools are achieving at high levels.

I’ve done zero formal research, but I can tell you that I perform better when I’m being praised.  I perform better when I know people care about me.  I perform better when I’m allowed to be creative.  Simply, I perform better when I’m inspired.  I feel a sense of worth.  I believe I can contribute.  I daydream about possibilities and I want others to feel the same way.

I do think that we take this for granted.  I believe as educators we believe that we are already doing this, and therefor tend to talk about “surface solutions” (I like to call them), rather than digging deeper into the social and emotional well-being of our students.

As we walk away from our conferences let’s make sure that first and foremost our job as educators is to inspire children.  Let this be task number one.  If we can do this effectively tasks number two, three, four, and so on will be much easier to accomplish.

Thank you North Dakota educators and NDCEL for doing what you do.  It is because of your encouragement, advice, and inspiration that I’m ready to enter another wonderful week of work and have many more fabulous days ahead of me. 

   

He Provides

“If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes.” Mark 9:23 NKJV

Last Wednesday night my two boys hugged their grandpa as we were leaving their cousins house.  It’s been a regular routine for them – they hug their papa and grandma when we leave their presence.  But, little did my kids know the hug they shared could have possibly been their last.  Their papa was about to have risky surgery the next day to remove his cancer.

Their papa is an incredible man.  Not only is he a great grandpa to my kids, but he’s the father-in-law that you could only dream of having.  He has lived a life of service, and will always put himself second to everyone else and their needs.  He’s a farmer.  Like all farmers – they work their tails off for the benefit of everyone else.  They put countless hours of work in so that households across the world will have food on their plates.  Really when I think of Jim Kjos (Papa) – the phrase that continues to pop into my mind is “he provides.”

Without a doubt he provides.  He provides support.  He provides love.  He provides an inspiration that is contagious, and let me tell you – he has inspired my two little boys beyond belief.

 

This past summer he was diagnosed with terminal cancer.  Doctors gave him two to five years to live and told him that his cancer was not operational.  He began to undergo chemo treatments and did so for many months.  It must be noted that these chemo treatments came during the peak farming period but they didn’t stop him.  He provided when his body told him not to.  He rolled out of bed when it would have been much easier to fall back asleep.  When his body was telling him to NOT give another inch, he gave a mile.

About a month ago he was given the option by a second doctor to undergo surgery to try and remove most of the cancer.  He was told that without the surgery he would have months to live.  The surgery was going to be risky; a 50% chance of survival.  Without a blink of an eye and caution being tossed at him from all around – he decided to undergo the surgery.  A surgery that would last 10-12 hours.

The prayer chain that had started back when he was first diagnosed began to grow much larger and stronger.  People that didn’t even know him prayed for him day after day after day.  The Shiloh community that I’m a part of lifted him up in prayer each and every day.  My family and I prayed for papa every night before we went to bed.

We prayed even harder the day of the surgery.  Anticipation and nervousness surrounded the family as we waited to hear the first report from the doctor.  Shortly after 9 am – we received the first report.  The doctor told the family that the cancer was not as bad as they had first thought.  Each report after for the next 10 hours was better and better.  Finally just before the surgery was complete the doctor visited the family and told us that he believed to have extracted all of the cancer.  Not only that, he believed that papa has a very good chance to beat this cancer all together.

The power of prayer is amazing.  God provides support.  He provides love, and he continues to provide us inspiration.  He tells us to cast all of our worries on him.  As the verse at the top of this blog post states “if you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes.”  Really when I think of God – the phrase that continues to pop into my mind is “he provides.”

“Cast your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7 NIV

God does care for you.  We all have stories that are similar to the one above.  Each day we deal with pressure and anxiety.  We have loved ones that are sick and we have loved ones that we have lost.  Throw your worries to the lord and trust in his will.

“I will answer your cry for help every time you pray, and you will find and feel my presence even in your time of pressure and trouble.  I will be your glorious Hero and give you a feast!” Psalm 91:15 TPT

I appreciate that God continues to give me a feast.  I also appreciate that papa will also be able to continue his work and give everyone a feast.  Please continue the prayers for this amazing man.  He has many more great things to offer to this world and certainly has many more hugs to offer my children.  He is not out of the woods but he has certainly cut down many of the trees with his bare hands.  His recovery could take longer and his cancer may come back, but round 1 goes to papa.  

Papa and Grandma with all the grandkids.

Random Act

“Your child will follow your example, not your advice.”

-Unknown

I saw this quote and I immediately thought of a funny story.  Two Sundays ago, as I was sitting on the sidelines watching my seven year old play flag football, I began to notice that the apple didn’t fall too far from the tree.  You see, Tayten is the type of kid that thinks he knows it all, but he fails to pay attention to what is being told to him.   He got a short two minute break and came over to me for a drink of PowerAde, and I said to him.  “When you are playing receiver, do not run so deep that the quarterback can’t throw you the ball.” 

The very next play he is in as wide receiver and you could almost guess what he does.  He runs 25 yards down field, doesn’t get a pass and gets frustrated.  I quickly reminded his mother (the tree) what she has created. J

Fast forward to this morning as we are both standing in front of the school greeting students and parents as they come in.  He has seen me open the door, say good morning, and greet people for a few months now.   We have two sets of doors that one must walk through in the morning.  I notice that he has now taken it upon himself to open the second set of doors, say good morning, and greet people as they walk in.

Two totally different circumstances, but both relevant to the quote above.  I laughed when I read the quote because it’s the absolute truth.  My child will follow my actions more than he will follow my words.

What a great reminder for us all.  I’ve said it before, but if we think better and do better, the world in which we live will ultimately be better.  In my position as Superintendent, people tend to ask me how it feels to be a boss.  The question frustrates me because I couldn’t be further from being a boss.  I’m a leader.  You are a leader.  We are all leaders.  Great leaders talk less and listen more.  They encourage and empower others.  Great leaders lead by example.

What example are you setting?  Whether you are a student, parent, teacher, business leader, or human for that matter, please reflect on your example.  I would like to start a simple challenge and hope that it can spread all over the world.  I’m a Social Media guy - so this will be the vehicle.  I absolutely love the power it has to connect individuals and deliver professional development opportunities at our finger tips.

Here is the challenge.

1. If you don’t have a Twitter or Facebook account get one.
2. Every day for the next 5 days do one random act of kindness.  It can be anything from complimenting somebody to opening a door, etc.  Just one random act.
3. Share what you did by writing the hash tag #SCRandomAct at the end of your post.
4. No need to share names, just share the act.
5. I’ve started it for you and my random act can be found by looking up the hashtag on Twitter.

Please don’t let this die.  Could you imagine a world in which each and every one of us makes it a point to carry out one random act of kindness each day for the next five days? Ten days? Lifetime?  When you help others you help yourself.  It’s fun and simple and we can start making a difference.  Are you with me?  Share this with others and inspire them to do the same.  One random act for the next five days – Go.

Permission to Fail

When was the last time you failed at something?  How did you feel?  What did you do next?

Think about the three questions above after you have read this short blog.  Why do we continue to put a negative emphasis on failing?  Nobody wants to fail.  As your children go back to school, I would like to tell you something that might sound completely out of the box.  Give them permission to fail.

As crazy as this sounds, I think it is vitally important for the up-bringing of today's children.  We all have heard of how successful people failed before they became successful.  What we learn through the process of failure is far more important than the failed task itself.  Failure does not have to be fatal.  Instead I’ve seen this; which makes way more sense.

F – First     A – Attempt   I – In    L – Learning

Let it be heard around the world that it is O.K. to fail.  With that said however; it is not O.K. to give up.  Life is not completely peachy.  Success is not automatic.  You will fall down.  What is important is that you get back up.

How many of you suffered from test anxiety?  How many of you still do?  What if we took the pressure off?  As we begin a new school year, I have come up with a few tips that each of us can live by that will help us do just that.

Students

Society is filled with millions of pressures.  You don’t have to try to be somebody that you are not.  It is O.K. to be yourself.   You don’t have to be good at everything.  Failing at something is not the end of the world.  With that said; don’t give up.  If you believe in something and you have a dream, don’t let failure be the end all.  You can achieve and keep pushing forward.  Having the permission to fail does not mean that you get to sit back and relax and do nothing the entire school year.  You must try.  You must keep moving forward.  You must bounce back and have a positive attitude. Remember this if nothing else;  failure does not define you, it’s what you do after that does.

Parents

Help alleviate some of the pressure your children are feeling.  Give them permission to fail.  This will lift much of the stress and anxiety that they may have built up.  Be there as a support for them when they fail.  Be there to high-five them when they accomplish something.   Do not live your life through your child.  Do not put unrealistic expectations on your child.  Help your child by giving them tools that will help them along the way.  Let it be known to them that you will love them if they fail, and you will love them when they succeed.  Encourage your children at all times.

Teachers

Right now we have things backwards.  We have time as a constant and learning is the variable.  These two things need to be switched around.  Learning needs to be constant and time the variable.  If a child fails a test or an assignment – allow them the opportunity to do it again.  If a child cannot show mastery by taking a pencil-paper test, allow them to show mastery in other ways.  Also, rethink deadlines.  What is your ultimate goal with a project or assignment?  Is it to meet a deadline or for the child to master a skill?  Allow your students to be innovative.  Allow them to collaborate and communicate with each other.  Finally, allow them to be creative.  These are the competencies that our children will need when they graduate.

Everyone

The permission to fail does not just apply to our children.  Give yourself permission.  By doing so, you will feel more comfortable taking risks.  Stepping outside of our comfort zones and taking risks will help us realize our full potential.  We have the ability to do amazing things.  Just stop fearing failure.  Embrace it and fail forward.  When adults take risks and fail, our children will do the same.  One step back and two steps forward….you have heard it before.  Let’s live by it.

A Future Yankee?

   

I was six years old and I was doing what I loved best.  I was watching the Yankees take on the Twins in the Humbert H. Humphrey Metrodome.  We were fortunate to be able to make this trip often.  Somewhere in the middle of the game my dad reached over to me and asked me to step a few rows down and ask a certain gentleman for his autograph.  Being the lovely and abiding son that I was, I obliged to his request.

I didn’t know the guy, but he quickly pulled me up on to his lap and began a conversation with me.  I can’t recall our conversation, but he eventually wrote the following on my program;

To Travis

A future Yankee

From his pal

George Steinbrenner.  

Pretty cool huh?  Well actually he never did call me.  I never put on the Yankee uniform and I never stepped out onto the famous grounds of Yankee Stadium.  It would have been a dream come true for me to one day play for the Yankees or to step foot on the field wearing the Yankee jersey.  In reality, I had many dreams as a kid as I'm sure you did as well.    

When I was in grade school, I dreamed of playing professional basketball.  I played basketball in my driveway pretending I was the next Michael Jordan.  I attended camp after camp.  The first and last thing I did every day was shoot baskets.  In all honesty, I slept with a basketball.  The dream was real in my mind and it gave me a great deal of purpose in my childhood.

I really got to thinking about all of this, over the past weekend.  I took my two boys to the Yankees and Twins games in Minneapolis.  I just remember how special these trips were to me and I wanted that same thing for my boys.  On Friday afternoon before the game we were able to take a tour of Target Field.  It was an awesome experience.  At one point in time, I snapped the photo below.

Tayten (7) on left.  Jeter (5) on right.

This picture reminds me so much of my childhood.  I knew the feeling that was going through them as they looked out over the field.  I felt that same thing years ago.  We eventually were able to get close to the Yankee dugout and obtain a few autographs.  The kids were on cloud 9.  Tayten later told me, that when he’s out on the field he will throw me a ball and sign an autograph for me.  I knew at that moment that a dream was brewing in his heart.

The moral of all of this is that dreams are vitally important to our children.  No matter how big the dream is, we need to encourage our kids. I know that my children drive me crazy from time to time, but that is what they are supposed to do.  I know this because this is what my mother told me.   No matter the circumstance we need to fuel the dreams of our children.  We need to let them experience setbacks.  We need to guide them and encourage them, but not necessarily point the way.  I’m a big fan of the GPS and compass analogy.  Rather than giving our kids a GPS which shows them the way, give them a compass and let them find their own way.

But don’t be a dream killer.  Don’t knock their dreams down, and (along that same token), don’t give up on your dreams.  Who said you had to be a kid to dream?  We all have dreams.  Dreams drive us.  Faith guides us.  Fear nothing and give everything.  You can.  It’s that simple.  Anything is possible.

I will never be that parent that lives through his children, but I will be that parent that gives his kids every opportunity possible to experience life.  It is through these opportunities that my children will be able to dream big and dream often.  They may never get a call from the Yankees, and that is completely fine.  But they will get a call someday.  A dream will become a reality.  No matter the shape or size of the dreams, some will become reality, while others not so much.  Be there to celebrate those that become realities, and be there to provide support and guidance for those that don’t. 

Whatever you do, be a dream driver and not a dream killer.  Don’t believe all the hype about grounding your children in reality.  The reality is, they will learn and feel as they go.  Just be a support.  Love them unconditionally. Support your children in their dreams.  If possible expose them to as many opportunities as possible.

If they want to sleep with a basketball in their hands – let them J

An Encouraging Word

“Never underestimate the power of an encouraging word”

John C. Maxwell

Have you ever felt like you don’t fit in?  Or maybe you continue to work tirelessly but don’t ever feel appreciated? 

I would definitely have to question you if you answered no to the above questions.  We all have a need to feel appreciated, and we definitely have a need to feel some self-worth. 

When we feel appreciated we are better at what we do.  We are also happier.  When we are happier we are healthier.  Now what if everyone in the world felt appreciated?  The world would be happier and healthier.  How would this impact society?

John Maxwell is right on with his quote above.  An encouraging word goes a long way.  Let me tell you this.  You are appreciated.  The work you do is appreciated.  Sometimes we get caught up in our daily lives that we take for granted the things we do and the things we DON’T say.  Step back for a minute and think about all the things that happen to you throughout a day.  Think about all the things that have to happen for your day to be complete.  From the people that manufacture our beds, alarm clocks, clothes, etc. to the people that we work with and those that watch our children.  Everything comes together to make the day work.  People behind the scenes are working to make society work for you.

Here is a simple challenge for you.  Encourage someone today.  Show your appreciation to someone and make their day.  This should create a ripple effect.  What if for one moment everyone in the world felt appreciated at the same time?  This would be an amazing utopia.  Seriously though, just accept the challenge and go encourage someone.  What are you waiting for? 

We are all working together to make the world work for us.  Step back a moment and think about all the people working at this very moment to benefit you.  Now, when you get the opportunity, thank these people.  These people are all blessing you in some way, shape, or form, and let’s not forget to thank God for the blessings we have in our lives.

Go forth and appreciate the people that make your life possible.

Have a great day.  I appreciate you!

The Permanent Jersey

It was the 10th of March 2015, and I was driving home from school when I noticed a group of boys playing basketball in a driveway.  I know this might not sound shocking to most of you but it was odd for three different reasons.

1.     It's winter in North Dakota.

2.     It seems as though a pickup game of basketball just doesn't occur on driveways as much as they used to.

3.     The most important reason and the inspiration for this blog post...their season had just ended the night before with a loss in the first round of the regional tournament.

You see, for these guys the season started the day after it finished.  The loss they experienced the day before was not going to be their defining moment. The drive to keep going and to get better was rich within them.  What they had done and what they were currently doing was preparing them for what was to come.

This story is a great metaphor for life. How many times have we given up? How many times have you wanted to throw in the towel? How many times have we allowed ourselves to become complacent and accept the status quo?

It's important to keep going.  Never take off your jersey.  As educators this time of year is often accompanied by a sense of relief.  We get to sit back and enjoy the summer.  We can take off our jerseys and throw caution to the wind.

It’s okay to feel this way, but don't take off your jersey.  You have an obligation to reflect, recharge, and refocus.  Now is the time to make sure the next school year is better than the previous.  Now is the time to grow.

As I currently sit in my office for the last time at Griggs County Central, I'm thinking about those boys shooting hoops that day.  I, like them, believe the season is just beginning.  I get the opportunity to wear a new jersey in a different arena. As I make the transition from one school to the next, I have set a few goals for myself.

1.  To continue to show people that they matter.  We all have God given talent.  We are all great at something.  It is our duty as humans to do our best to make this world a better place.  Why not start with letting someone know that they matter?  Give someone a compliment every day.  Better yet compliment people all the time.

2.  To grow in faith.  I’ve always considered myself to be a religious person.  However, I like many, tend to keep my faith and beliefs to myself.  I’m excited to become more extroverted with it.  I know that my teammates at Shiloh Christian will be a great help with this.

    

What are your goals for the coming year?  Setting goals will help ensure that your jersey stays on. Remember that it is completely okay to reflect and recharge before you refocus.  But don’t stop being who you are.  Keep your jersey on.  Continue to make each day better than the previous. You have something to offer this world.  

Since we are on the theme of basketball, feel free to live by the following quote that was once told to me by my basketball coach; “shoot until you are on, and then shoot until you are off.”  This way you are constantly shooting uand moving forward.  This might explain however why we didn’t win too many games. J 

Blog explained in one paragraph.

I bet you are a little perturbed that you see this paragraph.  You could have scrolled down and read this one paragraph without going through the whole thing.  Of course, you can take your jersey off and wash it.  However, I and some of you were a little superstitious when we were younger, weren’t we?  We didn’t wash our socks or our practice jersey because we were afraid to break the streak.  The jersey is a metaphor for who you are and what you do.  If this confused you, I apologize.  I may need to take a moment to reflect, recharge, and refocus.

Thank You!

“How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard” A.A. Milne

There are not enough words that can be said to the gratitude owed to an entire school community.  In the fall of 2010 my family was faced with a very difficult decision.   Should we pick up and leave something so familiar for something exciting, scary, and full of opportunity at the same time?  In making that decision we endured many sleepless nights, and showered many tears.  But eventually, we did decide to move and start a new chapter for our lives.

We were welcomed into the communities with open arms.  The support that has been bestowed upon my family and I will forever be in our hearts.  I’ve personally never felt more supported and loved in my entire life than I have these last five years at Griggs County Central.  I've said a number of times over that the world is a beautiful place and positivity is all around us.  You don’t have to look much further than the communities of Cooperstown and Hannaford to be reminded of this.  If the saying is true that North Dakota is God’s country, then I must say that Griggs County is God’s living room.

I believe that God has a plan for all of us.  I believe he put us in Cooperstown for a reason.  I know that I have grown greatly through the relationships and experiences that have presented themselves.  I would also like to think the communities have benefit in some way, shape, or form from us as well.

Over the past years since I've begun writing blogs on a consistent basis, it’s been primarily on the premise of trying to inspire others.  I've had many sleepless nights racking my brain on what more I could be doing to impact the world in a positive way.  How can I show people that the world is a positive place?  How can I inspire people to inspire others?  How can we get people to think better and do better to ultimately make the world a better place?

So I have taken to writing, and more importantly I have tried to turn my writing into action.  This has lead me on a journey to make a concerted effort to bring out the best in people, and with that to bring out the best in myself.  I truly believe that I was called to the field of education, and have no doubts that I’m fulfilling God’s plan for me.

With that being said, about a month ago I applied for the Superintendent position at Shiloh Christian School in Bismarck.  The position appealed to me because of the long standing tradition of education excellence founded and supported by Christian principles.  The opportunity to move closer to family, and the opportunities that my own children would have were also ideals that pulled us in that direction.  I believe in my heart that this is the right decision for us.  I see the Shiloh district as an opportunity for our family to grow in our faith, and enrich the lives of others.

Goodbyes are never easy, and I have so many people to thank for the support over these past five years.  Naming every individual that has touched our lives would be a cumbersome task.  A genuine thank you to the education community is in order.  I could not ask for better colleagues.  We have surrounded ourselves in a vision and mission to improve the lives of our students and I believe whole-heatedly that we are succeeding.  Thank you to the students, parents, and community members for being part of my professional growth as an educator.  I would not be where I am today without each and every one of you.

On July 1^st I will be transitioning to the Shiloh Christian School District.  We are excited for the opportunity, and sad for what we are leaving behind.  The relationships that we created will last forever, and forever I will be indebted to the Griggs County Central communities for enriching our lives.

Thank You. 

Breaking: Good News

This past week my school took part in a wonderful event.  Our students participated in a “Not Perfect Hat Day.”  The idea behind the event is to promote the uniqueness of the individual.  It focused on the premise that perfection is unattainable.  The only thing we have to be perfect at is being ourselves. 

I know the event was a success simply from the remarks that my six year old said when we got home from school that day.  He said to his brother, “Jeter, nobody is perfect.”  He went on to say, “we just need to be the best we can be.”

As happy as I am that this had a profound impact on my child, I can’t help but be disappointed at something else.  The founders of the Not Perfect Hat Club helped us promote this event.  They were tremendous at getting us ready, Skyping with our students, and sending out information to the media.  Just about every major media in the state of North Dakota was informed in one-way shape or form about this event.  On the day of the event, just one news organization came to cover it.  I want to personally thank the Jamestown Sun for coming out and promoting something positive.

We did not do this to gain attention, rather we did it raise awareness and promote individuality.  We simply intended to promote a positive message to our students.  But it completely saddens me that we seem to have things backwards in society.  The media should flock to something positive.  

I’ve said this before, and I will say it again.  “The world is a great place.”  We must train ourselves to see the positives, promote the positives, embrace the positives, and mimic the positives.  Positive news will yield happier people.  Happier people will then yield healthier people.  It's actually quite simple.  

Does negative news have its place?  Absolutely.  Should we hear about it? If it contains information for our well-being, yes of course.  But we need to shift the focus?  We need to start catching people being good, and then we need spread it all around.     

I honestly believe we the world is great.  I also believe that it can be better.  I believe that todays children will have a big impact on society.  This is precisely why it is my duty as an educator to promote the uniqueness of every child.  Every child that comes through our doors is great at something, and has the ability to impact this world in a positive way.  But we shouldn’t have to go to school everyday and remind students that the world is great.  They should know it.  They should see it.  They should live it.  They should be constantly reminded of it through a variety of different mediums. 

A couple of challenges for you as you embark on your journey through life.  Be a change agent.  Focus on positives and promote them.  If you see somebody doing good shout it out.  Shout it out so loud that everyone hears it and sees it.  Tweet about it.  Blog about it.  Lets spread the positive, continue to learn from the negative and embrace this wonderful world in which we live.  Are you with me?  I couldn’t hear you.  Are you with me?  Still couldn’t, but I will bank on the idea that you are. Jump on the positivity train with me and lets start tooting the horn on the good.

Here is your first good… the Yankees currently lead the Red Sox 10-4.  Sure puts a smile on my face.

You can learn more about the Not Perfect Hat Club and what it means to not be perfect by reading "The Not Perfect Blog Post" on my blog page.

What Are You Waiting For?

“I have this theory that if one person can go out of their way to show compassion, then it will start a chain reaction of the same. People will never know how far a little kindness can go.” Rachel Scott, the first victim of Columbine tragedy.

 

About eight months ago I decided to really step outside my comfort zone.  I began religiously writing blog posts.   For those of you that really know me, you will understand that I’m actually quite insecure.  On the outside I’m a happy-go-lucky type of guy and I express myself in an energetic way.  Most people would call me confident, and others possibly arrogant.  These are actually far from it.  I play a good game, but on the inside I’m quite different.

 

I’m insecure.  So when I decided to start writing and sharing my blog posts to the world you could imagine that it was a giant leap of faith for me.  But I cannot help but think I was put on this earth to do more than what I’m currently doing.  I lie awake at night thinking about how I can make a difference in this world.  I get to work in the greatest profession one could imagine.  I get to inspire people each and every day.  I’m sure some days I do better than others, but the opportunity presents itself with each new sunrise.  My conscious however, continues to tell me that I need to do more. 

 

So I’ve turned to writing.  Over the last eight months I have written over 20 blog posts.  Most of these posts have been attached with a theme of motivation or inspiration.  Some were written to challenge people to think better and to do better.  Others were written as tributes to those that have had a positive impact in my life.  Whatever the post may be, I always try to incorporate a positive message each and every time.

 

Over the last couple weeks I’ve purposely put something out there in order to see what happens.  I posted something or wrote something just to see what kind of a response it would get.  For example,  I posted the picture below challenging people to have a conversation with somebody new each day.  Unfortunately, I think the conversation stopped shortly after I posted it.  Everyone of us has a story that needs to be heard.

 

I also sent out an “I Appreciate You” tweet and challenged people to retweet and show someone that you appreciate them.  Each time I write an inspirational blog I invite people to share it.  I don't make money from my blog.  I'm not out to brand my name.  I write simply because it feels good and I continue to be encouraged to do so.  But dang it, it feels really good to be appreciated, and you have the power to make this happen for someone else.

 

 

 

Two weeks ago I invited three students into my office and shared an idea with them.  I wanted to start a chain reaction of appreciation.  I wanted it to be student led, and let their creative minds run with it.  They came up with an idea to put  “You Are Appreciated” signs on cars and asked the person that received it to pass it on to someone else.   The students did a phenomenal job and put quite a bit of effort into this campaign.  I’m grateful that they stepped up to do something right.  I'd like to personally thank and recognize these three students from Griggs County Central.  Jachob Rosin, Nicole Samson, and Alicia McCardle - thank you for all of your hard work.

 



You Are Appreciated Sign Created by Alicia McCardle

 

I can’t help but be disappointed with all of this though.  I understand the concept that if you changed one life it was worth it, but I think we can do better.  Please listen to me for a second though.  IT TAKES LITTLE EFFORT TO MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE.  Click the share button, the retweet button, or just simply smile at someone and say hello.  Send an appreciation note.  If nothing else, do one nice thing each day for someone else.  It’s actually quite simple. 

 

I’m not saying society is horrible.  I’m not saying the world is getting scarier.  I have a voice inside my head that continues to tell me to be a change agent in this world.  Make life better for someone else.  I’m in an excellent position to do so and so are you.  I completely get that we get caught up in our own lives.  I understand that.  What most of us don’t understand is that we take for granted all the blessings we have in our lives.  We don’t think about how the world would be different if we didn’t have them.  We wake up in the morning and often times repeat the same routines throughout each day.

 

Add something to your routine today and every day that follows….a random act of kindness.  This is all I ask.  This is what Rachel Scott was saying when she wrote the quote from above in her journal.  Rachel has started a chain reaction that has inspired and saved lives.  For more info about a wonderful program that has been created in her name please visit http://www.rachelschallenge.org/  What will your impact be?  What will you do to make a difference? 

  

I challenge you to share one or more of the images you see on this blog or share the entire post. Challenge others to do the same.  Take a second out of your life, to make a world of difference in someone else’s.  I will stop writing blog posts when the little person inside my head settles down.  We have bonded like none other for the last eight months, however I wish he’d agree to bond during daylight hours.

 

I have stepped outside my comfort zone. Are you willing to do the same?  I dare you..double dog dare you....triple dare you with no sticky tag backs.  What are you waiting for?